"A GOOD WORD IS BETTER THAN SILENCE AND SILENCE IS BETTER THAN USELESS TALK"

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A life I live is a story, what's done is done. Where it goes from here is totally up to me. I write my own ending.

Saturday, 22 January 2011

Mari kita buat eksperimen! #2

Hello!
This is my sequal dari first entry tentang pengunjung-pengunjung tegar belog I. I had a few feedback yang menarik from some of my visitors/ followers since I did this kind of eksperimen last time. 

It's good to now day my followers are increasing from time to time and I am really appreciate to all my followers which is so kind to read on all my entries and experiencing together with me especially on my Jasmin's development. Thank you guys!

Thank you also to the visitors yang drop by, nak jenguk-jenguk, nak jengah-jengah, nak singgah-singgah, yang tersesat, kat belog ini.

My recent visitors all around the world as today's date
However, I am a bit clueless bila tengok the total of my followers of my belog. Meh I explain one by one. So, anyone yang boleh tolong I solvekan mystery ni, is kindly appreciated.

For info, my recent followers as today's date is 21 followers aje.


This is print screen from my belog page showing all my followers, see the total followers are (21). And when I click "More", see what happen next....

It shows that All Followers are (21). HOWEVER, when I click "Next", see what happen....

My All Followers become (20). Eh! How come it happen like that? Memang saya sangat curious sekarang ini! The red arrow is actually showing me following my own belog.
So, let's count together;
21 - 1 (me) = 20 actual followers
But
When I count again on the followers details,
it become 19 followers.
So,
my question here is,
Why at first it shows 21 followers but when I go through my followers detail, it only shows 20 followers?
Who is actually the one person missing mystery followers?

Mungkinkah ada follower-follower hantu sama ertinya seperti pengundi-pengundi hantu yang sering digembar-genburkan setiap kali pilihanraya diadakan? Huuuuu.... scary....

Anyway, I bukan nak pertikai siapa yang datang siapa yang tidak, siapa my silent reader, siapa yang melawat, siapa yang follow privately ke, itu hak masing-masing. Kalau I tak nak orang lain masuk belog I, baik I privacykan sahaja belog ni atau pun buat invited readers aje, but in my life right now, I always have something to share with someone out there yang sincere nak sharing the life journey together. Sharing is caring maaaaaa..... So I make it open to all readers.

One thing I always remind myself masa first time I try ber-belog-ing, I have to be rational. Rational dari segi penulisan I dan pembacaan I dari geng-geng belog yang lain. Rational juga dari segi peng-komen-peng-komen budiman yang kadang-kadang ikhals letak nama dan ada juga yang anonymous, tapi semua I jawab sama rata. And when I'm writing something, I have to consider what is the sensitivity of every issue yang I selalu kongsikan. Bukan main sedap jari, sedap hati, sedap rasa nak mengomel menggedik-gedik, complain sana, complain sini, maki sana, maki sini, kutuk sana, kutuk sini, and bila orang lain baca, akan timbul salah sangka and salah faham. Itu tak baekkkk...

Anyway, for this time issue, I dah perasaan benda ni dah lama dah, tapi cuma hari ni aje agak kelapangan nak bincangkan lebih detail. So, anyone care to help?



P.S.
Tapi apa yang paling hillarious sekali tentang penemuan saya hari ini ialah on my keyword search, saya jumpa ini;

Apa kes orang US ni google "kucing nak mati", then kelik kat belog I, guna BB plak tuh!?

Friday, 21 January 2011

It wasn't so bad sangat......

Today is my second antenatal check up with KKIA. Since my first visit on the 13th Jan, the clinic still not disappoint me yet especially on the quality of services. Not so like others people keep complaining negatively regarding this and that but somehow i found it different way... but I know it's still too early to judge them as it was only my second visit and I'm not sure how it will take at the G.H. soon.....

I had to go to the clinic myself without Jasmin and hubby as I am so sangat serik to what has happened last time dengan Jasmin hari tu. So, this morning hubby has to sent Jasmin to nenek's house and then off to work.


Well, I had my appointment at 1000am and I reached the clinic around 0930am. As I am not sure how the numbering/ turn procedure is, I make myself to come early so that I won't get any kata-kata tak sedap dengar especially from the nurses. Anyway, everything's go with the flow and lucky me the clinic wasn't so packed with pregnant mothers and I have to wait for 10 peoples before my turn come up.

I take my seat near the doc's room and after few minutes waiting, one of the staff nurse called all the mother's who are still waiting for their number to come up to enter one of the room's for 15 minutes briefing on the "Breast Cancer".

"Bagosnya pulak diorang ni...."

So, orang memberi kita merasa, sambil mengisi masa lapang menunggu turn dipanggil, dengan senang dan rela hati, straight I went to the room. The staff nurse is very friendly and the briefing is very simple and compact indeed. Explaining to me on how to detect whether it was inside our body or not and how the breast cancer effect to all woman like me and aware me on how to prevent and doing the self-check (the PSP test). Sangaaaaattt berguna the info and again I tell you it's FOC okay!

This is my pink book provided by KKIA. All the details regarding my pregnancy akan disumbat semuanya di dalam cute pink book ini.

And this is the summary on my antenatal check up with Dr today... So my next appointment with Dr will be on the 14th April.
To be clear here, all the mother's will not get to see the KKIA doctor every month (but KPJ is defferent where we get to see our Gynea every month) and as for my  monthly check up, I akan berjumpa dengan Jururawat Masyarakat sahaja. As for my first time visit hari tu, the JM was quite friendly, helpful and tak adalah harsh sangat dengan kita. One of the JM assistant check my body top to toe and she also did the PSP test for me and showed me how to D-Y-I at home. However before this, I tak rasa semua ni pun masa kat my faveret Gynea.... heh! 

Hurm, tak nak trying to be bias sekarang ini so both option yang I ada sekarang ni pun ada good and worst-nya. And for me now and after, tepuklah dada tanyalah selera.    




P.S.
Berhati-hatilah dengan urusan dunia kerana halalnya dihisab, haramnya diazab.

Wednesday, 19 January 2011

Apa yang perlu, apa yang tidak......

January or perhaps 2011 wasn't a good start for me though....
I know I've been shoooo quite lately, derrgghhhh....
Feeling a bit down and a bit so-not-like-lily-always....
Have to accept the fact that my mak kucing has leaving me without saying any goodbye (bau bangkai eee pon takdo!sob!)
and have to accept the fact that there was a one tiny-miny-2cm fibroid in my uterus, very near to my baby.... sigh~~ 
and "amazingly" yesterday I just had a food poisoning + gastritis and almost warded...
And until today I'm still having the pain in my stomach...
And the sickness of nausea & fatigue & dizziness still occured in the evening after work, it's stresses me out a lot!


Sigh!SighSigh!
What a month!  


What stressed me the most is my fibroid issue.
Dr Ishak conformed me on my last visit on the 8th Jan telling that there was a small-like-fibroid on my uterus wall. Dr Ishak told it wasn't going to be a harmful or serious case as the fibroid size will decrease when the baby's is getting bigger. After all, it still scares me enough!


On my reading, for some serious cases, it will effect to the mother itself and also to the baby as it will increase the risk of miscarriage if the fibroid cling to the baby.


"Bagi wanita mengandung pula, fibroid boleh menyebabkan komplikasi termasuk keguguran, sakit bersalin sebelum waktunya dan kesakitan akibat daripada infarksi yang berpunca daripada kekurangan bekalan darah atau menyebabkan kedudukan bayi tidak normal dan terpaksa menjalani pembedahan Caesarean semasa bersalin." ** www.intim.wordpress.com


Complications of Fibroids During Pregnancy 
**http://www.pregnancy-info.net/fibroids.html
Though fibroids tend to grow in size during pregnancy, it is unlikely that they will cause you any symptoms. Some pregnant women do experience minor symptoms, particularly pelvic pain and light spotting. This is especially common if you experience fibroid torsion, when a fibroid growing on a stalk begins to twist. However, most pregnant women will not even know that the fibroids are there.
Most pregnant women who have fibroids will not experience any complications with their pregnancy either. However, fibroids during pregnancy do increase your risk of miscarriage/ preterm labor slightly. Occasionally, complications can arise if your fibroids become very large. Complications can include: or
  • postpartum hemorrhaging
  • obstructed labor (if the fibroid grows into the birth canal)
  • fetal malpresentations (sometimes fibroids grow into the uterus, forcing your baby into an unusual position)
  • stalled labor
  • cesarean section
 
So on the 13th Jan, on myself consciousness of this fibroid-thinging takes me to have a check up in government hospital. I have made my antenatal check up at Klinik Kesihatan near my house to ensure and back up me if there's any possibility might happened in the future. Frankly said, it is beyond my ability to have a C-Sec in private hospital as it will cost me a thousand RMsssss. (baik den simpan duit pegi makan angin)




Beraninya kita kerana kebenaran
Takutnya kita kerana kesalahan
Peritnya rasa kita kerana pengalaman
Tegarnya kita kerana kepayahan



Ans as for Jasmin development now, it's difficult for Jasmin to accept the fact she'll be having a new company soon.... Still called herself as "adik" even though sudah banyak kali pujuk to called herself as "kakak"



p.s. Dari Abu Zar r.a., dia mendengar Nabi s.a.w. bersabda; "Seorang lelaki yang menuduh lelaki lain jahat atau menuduhnya kafir maka tuduhan itu berbalik kepada dirinya seandainya orang yang dituduhnya itu tidak seperti itu." - Sahih Bukhari

Thursday, 6 January 2011

Sekapur sireh, seulas pinang......

Anak anda sebaya dengan my Jasmin?
Anak anda minum susu?
Nak join contest?
Nak tahu dan tambah pengetahuan untuk anak-anak, join activities, nak bagi best nutrition dan best tips menjaga anak-anak macam Jasmin?
Kelik sini....
 
and some more boleh joint Friso Flaunt it! Contest....

Terima kasih kat my opismate sebab recommend saya untuk join sekali dalam contest ni. Please kelik sini untuk join contest and vote untuk saya sekali. Hadiah memang sangat hebat dan lumayan....

Jom ramai-ramai kelik vote untuk saya dan Jasmin
saya dah vote, anda bila lagi? woot!woot!

Sorry Jasmin, Ibu dah over enteprem la pulak.... Tak tau macamana nak adjust nak nampakkan muka Jasmin....

p.s. hurmmm.. thinking of giving  my new baby this FRISO brand milk.... harga pun ekonomi berbanding dengan susu yang Jasmin minum dolu-dolu....

Tuesday, 4 January 2011

Those were the days.............

It's been a week my "mak-kucing" tak balik-balik rumah.And I've been wondering since then where have she been. She never leave the house even kalau I terlupa nak beli biskut untuk dia dua tiga hari sekalipon. I know she will crawl into the house through my kitchen window and songlap my left over foods. But now it's different. No more sound of kucing tergolek tiba-tiba at my kitchen sink and no more cat fur melekat-lekat at my kitchen window and no more gesel-gesel-kat-kaki-moment everytime I wash the dishes, no longer hear her sneezing outside the house (frankly I can feel my tear drop while I'm writing this....sob!sob!


Ooooowwwhh "mak kucing"....
Where have you been?
Leaving me without saying good-bye...
And I am starting to missed you badly each day, each night....
Ur both kitties also miss you too....


My mom said, kucing kalau nak mati dia akan mati jauh-jauh supaya tuan dia takkan tahu yang dia dah mati.... sampai hati you mak kucing... huwaaaaa.... leaving me without a word after seven years living together....




Once upon a time there was a tavern
Where we used to raise a glass or two
Remember how we laughed away the hours
And dreamed of all the great things we would do

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Then the busy years went rushing by us
We lost our starry notions on the way
If by chance I'd see you in the tavern
We'd smile at one another and we'd say

Just tonight I stood before the tavern
Nothing seemed the way it used to be
In the glass I saw a strange reflection
Was that lonely woman really me

Through the door there came familiar laughter
I saw your face and heard you call my name
Oh my friend we're older but no wiser
For in our hearts the dreams are still the same

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

-Mary Hopkin


p.s. I'm still hoping she'll be back home one day!

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